It was my dream to start this deal for ~ 20 years… yeah I blinked and it is 2021 🙂 But as they say – better late than never 🙂
Meanwhile I have been practicing some dating techniques and the proof is in the pudding … my 3rd marriage is a happy one lol… looking at 15 + years …
I often hear people complain how life is too complicate now… and how not easy it is to survive and you name it I heard it… and I have some single DEAR friends of mine who are telling me that they are not ready to date for .. well .. some.. for over the decade now! My response – I am not asking anyone to get married or to even jump into 100% committed relationship… But why not to date at all? Why take dating SO seriously that you have to be READY for it? Puzzle for me… I had fun when I was single and yes – I worked full time and I had small kids at that time (single mother of two best boys ever, with no help from my ex (thanks God to that :).
I have some of my single friends (women and men) who say something like ” I don’t want my kids to see me dating…”, “I don’t want my kids to meet anyone.. what will they think …”
And here is how I personally used to look at it when I was single and my boys were little.. I simply trusted them, and they trusted me.. that no matter what – they were on top of my list.. and they knew it… and all the guys I was dating – knew it too – how about that 🙂
So I managed… I never heard from my kids that I don’t spend enough time with them, that I spend too much time on dating, that I am never home…
And for that – I am forever grateful. My boys knew I LOVE them to the moon and back and they were happy to see me being happy. Which I was 🙂 How? I have learned how to love myself first… They teach you that every time you are ready to takeoff in an airplane chair. Pay attention next time… Same thing…
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Congratulations dear Zhanna!
Great mission!
May your initiative and activity make many people happy! ❤️🥂
Спасибо Марина!
This is great!
Лена, Я, и, как в песне поется, бутылка вина, Ждем встречи с тобой! 🙂
Awesome venture – especially during this time where we need to connect to grow.
Thank you my friend! Can’t wait to see you in AZ or CA! Soon!
I have known you for 15 years and know everything that you say here is true! And yes! People need to pay attention to that message: Secure your own oxygen mask before helping others…
Thank you Kacie! You remember how we used to say “sometimes you have to kiss 100 frogs to meet the prince”? Hey lol
Btw – I think it’s been 18+ years since you signed me up for the Toastmasters club, as Darien just turned 15! 🙂 Miss you my friend! Hope to see you soon!
Great venture dear Zhanna! It’s something you always wanted to do. I am sure you will bring much happiness in many around.
Thank you Dhannya! And yes you know it! 😅 Can’t wait to see you soon! It’s been TOO long!
Everything is very open with a precise clarification of the challenges. It was really informative. Your website is useful. Thanks for sharing!
You are welcome!